2019. március 13., szerda

Tom my housemate had an ugly crash with a borrowed motorbike, while he was waiting for surgery in hospital with his guest we went to the nearby suroloyo mountains


only one hour drive from the house

A market on the way























size of my middle finger

2019. március 10., vasárnap

A gorengan vendor on Jalan Monjali (gorengan-fries)
people eat deep-fried everything; tempeh and tofu, filled with veggies or meat, sweet balls with jam etc
 Why I go there is fried banana
one morning just before the house

then she jumped to the roof
 There was a exhibition on social stigmatization.
"Stigma is the social process of labeling, stereotyping, and rejecting human difference as a form of social control (Link & Phelan, 2001; Phelan et al., 2008). Given that stigma is a complex and dynamic process, the measurement of stigma is inherently thwarted by challenges including concerns regarding the level (e.g., interpersonal, structural) and perspective (e.g., objective versus subjective experiences) at which to operationalize stigma and measure its severity and frequency (e.g., hate crimes versus everyday discrimination) (Meyer, 2003a). operationalizing stigma according to the levels and means through which it is experienced—structural, interpersonal, and individual (Figure 1). Structural stigma refers to the societal norms and institutional policies that constrain access to resources, while interpersonalstigma refers to direct or enacted forms of stigma such verbal harassment, physical violence, and sexual assault due to one’s gender identity or expression. At the individual level, stigma includes the feelings people hold about themselves or the beliefs they perceive others to hold about them that may shape future behavior such as the anticipation and avoidance of discrimination. 
Central to structural stigma is power, which is used by the stigmatizing majority to exclude and marginalize those who are different
Stigma at the interpersonal level can shape stigmatized individuals’ cognitive, affective, and behavioral processes. Thus, at the individual level, stigmatized individuals’ psychological processes are affected by stigma, which powerfully shapes their basic orientation to themselves, others, and their environmental circumstances. These processes include anxious expectations of rejection and stigma avoidance, stigma concealment, and reduced self-efficacy to cope with stigma-related stressors.
Experiencing stigma at the interpersonal level can affect how people evaluate and approach future situations. Anxiously expecting discrimination can lead to avoidance of interpersonal situations, which can take a toll on one’s mental and physical health
What I see in indoensia is the stigmatising of a number of important issues with respect to sexuality including
- vilifying lgbt leading to exclusion, harassment and violence
- judging sex outside of marriage as dirty, wrong and irresponsible. Sex should only be between a married man and woman. De-Legitimizing all other relationships. 
- ignoring fundamental human rights with respect to gender and sexuality. Where all people regardless of gender or sexuality have the right to sexual relationships of their choice. Without fear, judgement, exclusion and violence.
The opposite of stigma and discrimination is inclusion, tolerance and respect
Other areas of stigma and discrimination includes 
- the criminalization of sex workers 
- excluding children born to single mothers a KTP and thus access to education and health
- harassment and violence to people living with HIV
- judging others for bring different"





 The same place there was a stencil workshop I joined; this is the result


 
In februaray-march its almost sunny almost every morning, then around noon-early afternoon it gets cloudy and starts raining soon. Rain can be short, long, heavy, light, but it comes for sure.

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At campus

the local morning market



IN the city




2019. március 7., csütörtök

 In one of our language classes we had "outing class". We met in front of a shopping mall then went up to its secret top floor. There was labyrinth and rooms where loud indonesian pop music was played groups shouted karaoke, sweet queasy smell around...









One day Andres called me, his neighbor has wedding, I can come along to have free food.
So I went down to South for free food. I had to add my name to guest list and give my best wishes to the couple and parents. Look, the bride is a porcelain doll.


besides colorful sweet jellies there was good food as well, including quite lot meat
music performers






Rice fields: Before before everything becomes like the capital
-the graffiti says


I visited a firends house nearby.
Instects from the rice field go on light, then  house lizards go obese.